Dating a scientist? Did you ever wonder what it would be like to be in a loving relationship with a young – soon to be – scientist? Then this article might just be for you.
With this article I’d like to introduce you to the both of us as a couple, meet the man who has got my back in any given situation.
Related: About me
I’ve met my partner online. Since we are both introverts, taking advantage of online dating had seemed obvious to us. We hit it off quite quickly. But soon enough I realized, that the sweet guy I met was indeed different than any other.
I remember that he was wearing a suit in his profile picture. His name was a play on the words from Shakespeare’s famous quote “to be or not to be”. I simply love creative minds.
The more we wrote, the more special our conversations got. From the gene modification with the CRISPR CAS 9 to the double orbit of Pluto. Probably things you would be discussing with a possible next partner. But I highly enjoyed our conversations. I personally dislike the idea of small talk. This is one point why I hopelessly fell in love with him. He was funny, charming and intelligent, the perfect match for me.
He studies chemistry at a university here in Switzerland while I’m jobbing as a draftswoman. Before he moved into my apartment, he lived with his parents and didn’t know anything about all the things revolving around the household.
THE MICROWAVE DILEMMA
There was one time he wanted to make me some tea. He pulled out a pot and started to heat some water. I told him, that it would be much easier and quicker to use the microwave. He gazed at me with a rather confused expression, then he glanced at the device behind him. I was watching him as he turned his head to me again and said: “How?”
I chuckled. “You don’t know how a microwave works?”
This was the moment I’ve made a clear mistake with my wording.
“Of course I know how a microwave works! I just don’t know how to use it!”
I was teaching him how to use this strange kitchen tool while he explained me from A to Z how microwaves are working. Not in a consumer way, but in technical terms.
BLOWING UP THE APARTMENT
There was another incident with the lovely device sitting in the kitchen. One day I walked in on my partner standing in front of the microwave with a questioning expression.
“What are you doing?”
I asked him, tilted my head slightly while watching him gazing at the device.
“How much power does this thing have?”
I got a bit confused about the sudden interest in the power of my microwave. He wasn’t so drawn to it any day before. I answered:
“Well, it’s a cheap one so 700 watts.”
“Oh, I do need at least 1200.”
I was confused. Why would he need a microwave with 1200 watt if we would have one with 700 watts perfectly working? I indeed had the courage to ask him.
“For building a plasma reactor, or more accurately, a plasma-assisted chemical vapor deposition chamber.”
“Please don’t blow up my apartment.”
After a short pause, we both began to laugh. With a more serious attitude he then added:
“Oh of course not! I would build it in the garage.”
THE HELIUM RANT
As mentioned prior, my partner studies at a university. And I remember as he was talking about his day he was indeed ranting about how recklessly people use up helium.
“I get so angry, seeing balloons filled up with helium at children’s birthday parties! Helium is a rare gas that could be put to better use, such as in rocket science or for cooling super conductors at CERN!”
He is a huge movie enthusiast, especially if the movies play around space and science. There are times he pauses and takes the time to explain the things happening from the perspective of science. Of course, he asks me first if I am interested.
“Do you want to know if that could be possible?”
“Did you know that this will be possible in a few years?”
And I simply love and enjoy seeing how excited he gets over these little things. Also, we are both excited for the release of Alien Covenant in our country! Last year we spent two days on watching every single Alien movie. There is a museum dedicated to the designer of the Xenomorph in Alien who was a Swiss citizen by the name of H.R Giger. We visited the museum after our binge-watching session.
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SPACESHIPS AND SOLAR TILES
Waking up early on a Sunday morning is a torture for both of us. We don’t like mornings. But my partner always sits in front of the Livestream when SpaceX launches a new rocket. (Well, recently they’ve relaunched one) Why do I even know this?
I cannot help but watch it myself because let’s be real if you’re as easy fascinated by science as I am, you’d watch too.
He is a huge fan of Elon Musk’s work. And I need to confess, I do think Elon is an awesome influencer for this world too. Especially his recent invention of the solar roof tiles. I work as a draftswoman and I’m all about environmentally friendly construction and energy efficiency.
THE FEMALE COUNTERPART
I am a geek, therefore, I am fascinated by science, mathematics, and technology. One day I’d love to study engineering. He is supporting and accepting of all the things I’d love to accomplish.
My disorders are no problem to him. We learn together how to fight them, which is a huge relief for me. He teaches me so many new things and our conversation never lack depth, this is something I’ve been looking for so long. I want to have a meaning in the conversations I get involved in. Talking about different topics on a rational basis is incredibly rewarding to me.
And most importantly.
I found the man I want to spend my life with
Those were just a few remarkable incidents that happened over the course of our relationship. I truly could not be happier with anyone else.